As North Korea has rapidly advanced its nuclear weapons
capability over the last year or more, I have often been reminded of a movie
starring Kevin Kline and Danny Glover. Well, one scene anyway.
That scene also
sprung to mind last week after Donald Trump suddenly announced that he will
have a face-to-face meeting with Kim Jong-un, following months of incendiary threats
from both sides.
In the meantime, there has been a lot
of public chatter about the wisdom of Trump’s meeting and its possible outcome. Previously, Trump has called for North Korea to end its nuclear program, or even to give up its nuclear weapons completely. To me, it seems that nuclear genie is already out of the
bottle. It ain't going to happen.
Many pundits have also pointed out how exceptional it is for a sitting
president to agree to such a meeting as a first step in a high-stakes negotiation.
Someone observed that, by agreeing to meet, Trump already conceded to Kim something he has long craved, a sign of respect, an acknowledgement of legitimacy.
And
this again made me think of Kevin Kline and Danny Glover in what is to me the
most memorable scene in Lawrence Kasdan’s 1991 movie “Grand Canyon”. This is
what happens:
A man, Mack (played by Kline),
leading a sheltered, affluent life in L.A. finds himself alone and stranded when his car breaks down after midnight in a dangerous, deserted part of town. He
manages to call for a tow truck just before his phone dies. It doesn’t take
long for a passing street gang to notice his predicament and take interest in
Mack's luxury car. Just when he’s about to become a victim of robbery or worse,
the tow truck arrives, driven by the street-smart Simon (Danny Glover), who
quickly and coolly hooks up the car, despite the tense situation.
The leader
of the gang, Rocstar, now threatens Simon, pulls a gun on him. Simon tries to
talk Rocstar down, asking him for the favor of leaving in peace with the car.
After some back and forth, with the gun pointed the whole time at Simon,
Rocstar says:
“I’m gonna grant you that
favor, and I’m gonna expect you to remember it if we ever meet again. But tell
me this, are you asking me as a sign of respect, or are you asking because I’ve
got the gun?”
Simon replies. “Man, the world ain’t supposed to work like this.
I mean, maybe you don’t know that yet. I’m supposed to be able to do my job
without having to ask you if I can. That dude is supposed to be able to wait
with his car without you ripping him off. Everything is supposed to be
different than it is.”
Rocstar demands, “So, what’s your answer?”
With a world-weary matter-of-factness, Simon responds,
“You ain’t got the gun, we ain’t having this conversation.”
“That’s what I
thought,” Rocstar says. “No gun, no respect. That’s why I always got the gun.”
This is why I fear it’s unrealistic to
expect North Korea to ever give up its nukes, no doubt having learned the lessons of
what happened to Muammar Gaddafi and the nation of Ukraine, that is: "no nukes, no respect".
It's also surely a message driven home by being granted an unprecedented
meeting with a US president. I think it’s an ugly message, but maybe that’s the way gangland diplomacy works.